Knowing why more attractive people are given better opportunities allows us to use that information to reap these benefits as well. There are a few ways that we can do this.
First, we can improve our own beauty. This is the “if you can’t beat them, join them” strategy, and I don’t believe that it is a bad method to use at all. Start exercising, practice eating healthy, take good care of your skin, wear nice clothes, and make your hair and face look pretty. Give off the image that you care about yourself so that others know that you are not a sloth wasting away all of our resources. Make yourself look deserving enough to get that extra attention and care. Treat yourself how you would want others to treat you. This isn’t being conceded or egotistical at the least, it is showing yourself respect.
Another method that we can do to bring these changes in our life is to improve our confidence. I believe that the best way to do this is by exercising and getting more social experiences. Don’t be a cave dweller and live in your room all day. Go take your dog for a walk, go out with your friends, and take advantage of the beautiful weather. Enjoy yourself and let the beauty of life resonate within yourself. Don’t let fear control you, and only see yourself succeeding in everything that you do. Even if you have to start small by proving to yourself that you are going to lose 5 lb in a month. Accomplish that goal and move on to the next goal. By constantly setting and achieving goals, you will build confidence and this is very important to getting places in life.
Finally, perhaps the most difficult of all of the methods, change society. Tell society that beauty is not correlated to success and happiness. Hell, look at Donald Trump, Oprah Winfrey, and Bill Gates. They aren’t exactly the Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, but they are telling the world that looks aren’t everything. So jump on their bandwagon and rise to the top and prove to everyone that you have more to offer than these mindless Barbies!
I hope that you can use the information that I have given you as motivation to step out there and be noticed. Everyone deserves to be looked at for their natural beauty and given a fair chance, or even advantage, in life. You may not be America’s Next Top Model, but taking a step to a better, more attractive you, will enable you to have more enjoyable experiences. I know that I greatly appreciate all of the attention that is given to me on a regular basis. It is nice to know that your friends, teachers, and family members respect what you say. It feels great to know that people look up to you because you present yourself as a person deserving of admiration. Some people may look at me with envy, and that is ok, but I will keep looking back at them with hope. I hope that everyone can experience the benefits of looking good.
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